There is a sang that goes, who who cares least, wins.
In a relationship, both parties need to do a little chasing. So, if you ever want to bag a real winner, you have to (unfortunately) play some games or be very forward. There are basically two plans of attack. If you act meek, you will come across as feminine and insecure which kills your chances with pretty women.
Have you ever seen those bums with those hot actresses? How do you think they bypass guys with some real power, looks, money, personality, etc?
It is because the guys who think they have no shot care the least, because they don’t have anything to lose being rejected, because they already THINK they will be rejected.
This mindset in this type of game is a winning mindset. He who cares least, wins.